Monday, April 15, 2013

Friends please feel free to comment, so that i can understand whether i am upto your expectations or not.

So what to start with...
Well Friends, my blog is about Life.
Let's have a beginning with a quote, which I like.

                                As Long as There is SOME1 in the Sky to Protect Me...
                                There is No1 on d Earth who could Break ME....

Just a few twists in the words, but doesn't dat really make a difference???

Every1 of us is sooo busy in our life that we hardly find enough time, to spend, that is worth Remembering, worth Laughing, worth Living!!!

Many of the people we see today are frustrated with their daily jobs, daily boring routine or some or the other stuff. For all such friends, I want to tell that this Life is very very precious and so we must not waste our time craving for all the bad that either happened or is happening.

                                        Life isn't about waiting for the right time to come.
                                        It's all about doing all the right things in the time 

                                        that is given to you.

So for what are we actually waiting to happen???

                                           You don’t need a title to be a leader.

Why are we not living our life to the fullest extent???
Why are we trembling about all the things surrounding us???

                   “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.”― Mae West

Just to give an example my friends,
        If "U" have FOOD in ur Fridge, clothes on your back, a RooF over your head and a place to $leep
                                                   "U" are richer than 75% of the WorlD.
        If "U" have money in the back of your wallet and some spare charge,
                                        "U" are among the TOP 8% of the World's Wealthy.
        If "U" woke up this morning with more health than illness
                                     "U" are more Blessed than the million people who will not survive this week.
        If "U" have never experienced the danger of battle, the agony of imprisonment or torture or the horrible  pangs of starvation,
                                        "U" are Luckier than 500 Million people alive and Suffering.
       If "U" can read this msg 
                          "U" are more Fortunate than 3 Billion people in the world who cannot read it at all  

Believe me friends, we all are really very Lucky and Blessed.
The Life which we are living is also a dream of many others.
So why to disrespect such a Great LIFE.

Just to give explain what worse can happen, i present here a letter written by a girl to her mother.
Notice: Please read it with full attention :)))

                         A mother was just passing by. She was astounded to see her daughter's bedroom.
The bed was nycly made.Everything was at its right place.Then she found an envelope purposefully put in the centre of the bed, which was nicely decorated. It was addressed, "Mom." With the worst premonition, she opened the envelope and read the letter with trembling hands:

Dear Mom: I am writing this letter with great regret and sorrow. I had to elope with my new boyfriend because I wanted to avoid a scene with Dad and you. I've been finding real passion with Tom and he is so nice, even with all his piercings, tattoos, beard, and his motorcycle clothes. But it's not only the passion Mom, I'm pregnant and Tom said that we will be very happy. He already owns a trailer in the woods and has a stack of firewood for the whole winter. He wants to have many more children with me and that's now one of my dreams too. Tom taught me that marijuana doesn't really hurt anyone and we'll be growing it for us and trading it with his friends for all the cocaine and ecstasy we want. Don't worry Mom, I'm 15 years old now and I know how to take care of myself. Someday I'm sure we'll be back to visit so you can get to know your grand children.

                       Your daughter, Liily

PS: Mom, none of the above is true. I'm over at the neighbor's house. I just wanted to remind you that there are worse things in life than my report card that's in the centre drawer of my desk. I love you! Call when it is safe for me to come home.  

Njyd reading it??? :)))

So just get up friends and let's have a new start, a new beginning of our Life.
A Life that will be full of inspiration, determination and most important of all, a Life full of $MIleS and H@ppIne$$
   Let go, forget the burdens of the past. The past cannot be changed, so use it to make the future yours.
  We all know that what is gone, is gone forever. Then why should we keep on regretting for the things done in the past. If we can change it for the better, then we should definitely do it. But if nothing can be done about that thing, then it's better that we should leave it and start something new.

   Be whoever "U" want to be. Don't live your life how ohter people want U to.
   Friends, remember that there is only 1 Me and only 1 "U". We all are special in our own ways, that's why we are on this Earth. Then why should we try to become some1 else??? I mean we definitely need some comparison to excel, but it doesn't mean dat we should leave our own character and become some1 else.

  Think positively.No matter how bad a situation, something good will come from it. 
  Worrying will, anyways, not help you to cope from any situation. So, then why to worry, instead positive thinking will always help us to find a way in any situation and get rid of dat that situation.
And why to worry, GOD is always with his children. He will definitely help us and show us a way out of every situation.

   Remember that everything happens for a reason When the reason reveals itself, it will blow U away.
 That's damn true friends. Most of the times, we feel like why this happened to me only? But believe me, there has to be, and , is always, a reason, for each and every thing dat happens in our Life.
So, rather than thinking why it happened, let's move on. Because in future, when the truth will reveal, it will be only den that we would be able " TO CONNECT THE DOTS....

   Change. Learn and grow as a person, become the best person U can and want to be.
   Rather than craving and complaining @ all the things around us, let's change ourselves. Let's us have an all-together new attitude towards Life, an attitude that we have always dreamt of.
  Let's us bring the change that we have always wanted to bring in Our Life, Our surrounding, Our Society, Our State, Our Country and to Our Universe.
As it;s rightly said that, Change always starts with Us. 

   Look after the pennies and the pounds will look after themselves. Care for the small things and the big things will happen as a result.
  At the end, when we will look back, it's den that we will realize that all those small things that we enjoyed, that we shared, that we did,  have grown into such a beautiful Tree of MEMoriE$.

   Build Relationships. Form friendships, see the good in people, share your life with them and tell them all your secrets.
  Well i don't think that there is hardly any1 who will disagree with this point. Just 1 line for friends.
                        "Without 'U', I'm absolute nothing."

    Live your Life with purpose. Set out to achieve something and do it. The feeling of accomplishment is empowering.
  After all, Life is not about only following our Bosses or teachers or seniors. We also have our ideas, our dreams, our thinking. Mostly we find that others hardly believe that U could do this.
So, let's do it!!! And when U make your idea, dreams come true, there's no1 who could be happier and more accomplished that U yourself.
  So, let's set a goal and here we go
  Get, Set and Gooooo!!!!!

   Take Responsibility. Don't blame your mistakes on others, don't blame others when things don't go to plan. Accept that it happened.
  In today's world, this is really a big thing that we must learn.

  Smile. A Lot. Happiness spreads SmiLe :))   
  Believe me Friends, there's nothing much more cute and great that Ur SMileS.  

Just because some1 dumped us or some1 scolded or betrayed us or behaved rudely with us or did bad to us doesn't give dat person any right to ruin our Life or, for that matter, our mood.
Just remember 
                   Be soft. 
                   Do not let the world make you hard. 
                   Do not let the pain make you hate.
                   Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. 
                   Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, 
                   you still believe it to be a beautiful place. 

And just because some1 says that "U are not lyk him/her" should just not at all, make any difference to U.
                   Be Confident. 
                   Too many days are wasted comparing ourselves to others and wishing to be something we aren't.
                   Everybody has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it's only when you accept everything you are--- and aren't --- that you will truly succeed. 


 To be happy in life, I would like to say just 1 thing.
                  Letting go off the things that makes U sad, will make U the Happiest person

So, Friends, Just let all the bad,odd, difficult, unnecessary things go off Ur Life.
Just start Living Ur Life with a New Aim, New Thinking, New Enjoyment, New Attitude, New Determination. A Life that is full of Happiness and Smiles and all the positiveness of Life.

1 thing that I would like to tell all my Friends:
                                      Life is not about finding yourself,
                             Life is about CreaTinG Your$elf.